J04Dakota - Use a simple SPDT relay, and you can still get both.
Find out which side switches. For 2001, it's the GREY wire connected to the 12V feed from the relay in the PDC. Connect the COM terminal (for a Bosch style 5-terminal SPDT relay, it's pin 30) to the fan, the NC contact (pin 87A) to the current wire that's switched.
Take the NO contact (pin 87) to the 12V or Ground leg to complete it instead of the internal logic.
Wire the coil up to 12V --> Pin 85, then Pin 86 --> Switch --> Ground.
If possible, add a 1N5004 diode with the band at Pin 85, other side to Pin 86, to dampen reverse spikes.
That way, the switch will turn the fan ON forced, but if it's turned OFF, the A/C will turn the fan ON.
I don't know for sure ... but my 2001 book says that the GREY wire is switched 12V, so you'd wire the 87 pin to a fuse, and from that to the battery or alternator, or some other place to get a solid 12V. For 2001, it was a 50A switch, so you'd want at least a 65A or bigger relay.
Also, pick the 12V source for the relay coil to be a switched source ('HOT in ON or RUN', not 'ALWAYS HOT').
If you DO grab a Bosch style relay be forewarned - most are only 30 to 40A, and may not last long switching that fan motor.
RwP