. . . I am looking at a schematic for '01 through '04, and it is actually showing quite a few ot the wiper functions going through the CTM. The schematic also shows power going through 20A fuse#5 (which looks like it should be in the cab, not in the PDC) to the switch AND to the relay, so I don't see how power could be getting to the motor with that fuse removed. That one I cannot figure.
As far as the relay, it looks like a 5 pin relay that is energized by the switch and the CTM. Then it looks as if once the relay is energized power goes through the other side of the relay into another input in the CTM (the CTM has 7 ins and outs for the wipers according to this schematic) and after it gets the input from the relay, it (the CTM) sends output to the motor.
I don't see how the wiper motor could get power with either the fuse or relay removed.
On those relays, it's easy to get the wrong one if you go by the 'map' on the inside cover of the PDC. It's almost as if when you look at the 'map' the relays in the PDC are actually backwards of how they are shown on the 'map.' I'll find a layout of the PDC that shows how the fuses and relays are truly laid out as you are looking at it from above, and check with that.