Well, to make a long story short. I've dated my girlfriend for just over two years now. After she got off work yesterday she came over for about an hour. When she was leaving she said she wanted to talk and told me that she wanted to break up. I was shocked and kinda bummed. I thought things were getting good and now this happens. There is a lot to the story, as with any relationship, so I'll try and explain some of the details because I know you guys will ask questions (which is fine, it helps me out to talk about it). I think that this time it is done because the way she acts makes me feel like she may have someone else, which is something she kinda did when we first starting dating. Oh well, my life is moving forward with or without her. I got accepted into the Nursing Program at University of Southern Indiana and I'm thinking of picking up another major in Health Administration (that way I can have one degree by next fall). Well, that is about all I can say right now until I get my head straight. I have to go to class now anyways.
Women know how to hurt you the most
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No, she wasn't seeing the other guy and she isn't now. I know because I work side by side with him. He is a scrawny little puke and I told him if he ever messes with her or tries to get between us I'll break every damn bone in his face. He is also blind in his left eye and I told him I blind his other too.
This is why women fuck with guys so much...
They don't give a shit about women... they just want fuck toys, so we have to keep bouncying around to find one that actually wants companionship and gives a shit about other stuff other than sex.
Anyways...
On a better note, she could have atleast tried to talk to you about the issues between you guys
You may have thought things were getting better, but guys and girls relate different (duh)...Mines far from perfect...
Girls wouldnt bitch so much if guys would just listen :huh: I ask nice the first time and get ignored so I nag to get some fuckin response...
They always say things happen for a reason... I'm sick of that phrase
I congratulate you on your Nursing! :clap2: I'd focus on that right now and worry about ladies later... we just complicate things - NO COMMENT on my view of guys though...
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Yeah, I get a lot of jokes about the male nurse. Mostly from my brother because we know a couple guys who are nurses and they are both gay. As for the nudie pics, I want to so bad but she found all of them on my computer one day and deleted them all. It really sucks. She had a great little body.
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I'm with you on the whole cliche stuff. She used one: "If we are meant to be together....." I know I'm probably gonna get flamed on this but most of my friends tell me that I'm too sensitive. They always tease and tell me I'm the girl in the relationship. I was always the one talking and she would never talk with me. That is my biggest issue with her and I was always getting upset over her not communicating with me. And I want companionship. I'm different and weird but I want a girl to settle down with and marry and have a family. As for the sex part, well I'm I guy, I can't say anything about that. Hell ya I wanted some ass:woot:This is why women fuck with guys so much...
They don't give a shit about women... they just want fuck toys, so we have to keep bouncying around to find one that actually wants companionship and gives a shit about other stuff other than sex.
Anyways...
On a better note, she could have atleast tried to talk to you about the issues between you guys
Mines far from perfect...
Girls wouldnt bitch so much if guys would just listen :huh: I ask nice the first time and get ignored so I nag to get some fuckin response...
They always say things happen for a reason... I'm sick of that phrase
I congratulate you on your Nursing! :clap2: I'd focus on that right now and worry about ladies later... we just complicate things - NO COMMENT on my view of guys though...
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I just talked to her for about an hour. Only thing she really could say is she "doesn't know." She wants to see the world from her eyes as a single person and I'm the only one she's ever dated. Sounds like she wants to things that don't coexist. She wants to be single and see the world, she has only dated me, she isn't sure if she wants to date someone else or not. How come women never know what they want? Every guy on this board can tell you exactly what they want. Women, "They're not sure"
What sort of relationship was it? Committed or casual. if it was a casual relationship jsut starting to date UNLESS you both agree not to see other people there is no rule that means youre seeing me and only me. personally I used to casually date all the girls I dated. I didnt have a GF in the meaning of im only seeing one girl till I knew them for a while.
If she wants to break up then break up. Who knows she may want to get back together. IMO if she wants to break up with you I woudl completely cut off ANY ties you have with her. Let her go completely. I used to do that to girls all the time and they called all the time back trying to make me understand why they broke up with me. The more they called the less I wanted to talk to them. also YOURE BUSY no matter what. Dont answer your phone let it go to VM
youre doing somethign with or to someone all the time
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I'm doing my best. We were committed. Like most girls, she even talked about marriage. That was one of the things she started talking about when she broke up with me. She said "I know I've talked about getting married and looking at rings...." blah blah blah. We both worked at the same place for almost all of those two years, which wasn't a problem, we didn't really get to see each other. Well everyone knows us both and from talking to all of them about how I'm doing almost all of them have told me that they have heard her say things to me and things she has done to me while at work that they couldn't believe. Most of them told me they didn't understand why I let her talk to me like she did. I guess I just didn't realize what she was doing. I have a lot of hot girls I work around and all of them want to take me out Sat. night so I'm going and taking my camera and getting some "pics" and posting them all over facebook so she can see the fun I'm having without her.
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is there something i should know?? bouncing huh? :waiting::rant::rant::rant:This is why women fuck with guys so much...
They don't give a shit about women... they just want fuck toys, so we have to keep bouncying around to find one that actually wants companionship and gives a shit about other stuff other than sex.
Anyways...
On a better note, she could have atleast tried to talk to you about the issues between you guys
Mines far from perfect...
Girls wouldnt bitch so much if guys would just listen :huh: I ask nice the first time and get ignored so I nag to get some fuckin response...
They always say things happen for a reason... I'm sick of that phrase
I congratulate you on your Nursing! :clap2: I'd focus on that right now and worry about ladies later... we just complicate things - NO COMMENT on my view of guys though...
I said my comment to cheer the guy up, dont even put me in that category..
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fuck yourself Fluffy
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you SOB...why you always have a humerous comment :jester:
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It's like you can't even get mad at him because it's funny:jester:
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Keep your head up man. Ive been down the same road except I did get cheated on and for who knows how long but you know about that disaster, but anyway like I said keep your head up. If she wants to be stupid let her. There is someone better out there for you. Again, I welcome you to the heman woman haters club! :funny: We need to go cruisin' around in our trucks and get us some fine women. :mullet:
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