The beak in period isn't necessarily for the gears themselves, it's more for the bearings. If you put too much load on the bearings before they have a chance to seat properly, you will be replacing the everything again.
At 2800lbs., you could get something else to pull the boat and not run up against the max tow limit. You could always rent a truck from Uhaul, Lowes, or Home Depot for when you need to take the boat into the shop and then pick it up. The amount of money spent on renting a truck for a couple days is cheaper than having to put new gears, bearings and bushings in an axle twice.
At 2800lbs., you could get something else to pull the boat and not run up against the max tow limit. You could always rent a truck from Uhaul, Lowes, or Home Depot for when you need to take the boat into the shop and then pick it up. The amount of money spent on renting a truck for a couple days is cheaper than having to put new gears, bearings and bushings in an axle twice.