shes gone

[grumpy44]

And I'm not talking about my truck. My wife left me wedsday when I was at work, opened the door and most everything was gone including her. We had been having problems for a while now, but I had no idea it was so bad she would leave because of it. I thought thats what a marriage was all about? you work through the problems. she doesn't even have a job. Took every dime we had too. I am sooooo bummed out, I can't eat or sleep or anything else. I didn't even bother going to work for 2 days. I don't care about anything. I feel so hollow inside. she even took the only phone we had, a cell, I have barely enough gas to go anywhere and not sure what to do about anything anymore. I am going to try and sell a few things so check it out and help a poor guy out. Paypal only though so I can get it in a asap. I will need money to ship so it may be a slow process, well slower anyway. I had to get this off my chest even though it didn't seem to help much. thanks guys

[Mystake]

Man, I'm so sorry to hear she left you. I can't imagine what you're going through. I can only hope you're able to keep your chin up high enough to see that the rain will clear and the sun will come out shinning one day.

[SinCity R/T]

And I'm not talking about my truck. My wife left me wedsday when I was at work, opened the door and most everything was gone including her. We had been having problems for a while now, but I had no idea it was so bad she would leave because of it. I thought thats what a marriage was all about? you work through the problems. she doesn't even have a job. Took every dime we had too. I am sooooo bummed out, I can't eat or sleep or anything else. I didn't even bother going to work for 2 days. I don't care about anything. I feel so hollow inside. she even took the only phone we had, a cell, I have barely enough gas to go anywhere and not sure what to do about anything anymore. I am going to try and sell a few things so check it out and help a poor guy out. Paypal only though so I can get it in a asap. I will need money to ship so it may be a slow process, well slower anyway. I had to get this off my chest even though it didn't seem to help much. thanks guys


It won't help right now, but if you assume this is going to head for divorce, you should immediately document everything that she took from the house & the bank account. You should be able to get reimbursed (or credited) for 1/2 of whatever she took when it goes to court. I'd also recommend getting her name off the credit cards & utilities as soon as possible too, otherwise you're liable for 1/2 the bills regardless of the fact that you're separated.

[grumpy44]

none of that really matters, we r in the middle of a chapter 13 anyway, and I don't care about the stuff she took, most of it was hers even if I did buy most of it. and I had given her all the money from my last check to pay the car note and whatever else. I owe the bank money and they were taking it witout my permission and I just would cash my check and bring the money home. she could have left me something to get by with till I get paid next thursday. thats gratatude for ya. I took her out of a bad situation gave her a home a new car and stuff she had never had and this is how I get repaid. women suck man. the last 1 did the same thing. I'm too old for this shit. I will never ever have another one. gonna live my life for me and to hell with every-one else. been married for over 2/3rds of my life for what? to get what heart I had left broke again. She never had it so good. we have just been going through a tough time and she bailed.

[DAKSPORT1PA]

Thats rough man. Really sorry to hear that. Keep your head up.

[02roadtrack]

Sorry to hear that man. I really have nothing to say but there are poeple here that will listen.

[solo1]

keep your chin up, you'll get out of it....
it isn't worth it..you'll get better..!

[KotaChuk678]

my only suggestion that I can think of right now is to get yourself back to work. It will get your mine off it some and besides you don't want to lose that with the current situation.
sorry man :wave: it'll get better!

[Jackedak03]

Seriously just work and spend time with friends it'll really help. Best of luck to ya, and if this happened to me I'd say fuck it and start fuckin everything that walks...;)

[cegpcola]

and if this happened to me I'd say fuck it and start fuckin everything that walks...;)

2nd that!:mullet:


Sorry to hear about the lose, but make the most of your days and spend time with friends and working to get it off your mind.

[DEEZNUTTS]

it doesnt matter how old you are.heartache is heartache and it never gets any easier cept with time bud..but in the meantime you cannot give up on life and lock yourself in the corner defying any and all responsibilities.you have to stand back up on your own 2 legs and walk..noone knows what the future holds,hell she may comeback tomorrow,,but if youve fallen flat on your ass and lost any and will to live,does that make someone that she or someone else would be interested in?i think you know the answer to that my friend...
stand up,brush that shit off,and show her and everyone else watching what the hell your made of my brother...

john











p.s. your m.o. is on its way..

[clint282cc]

i hear ya man. i cant imagine if i lost somone that i was with for al ong time but i just lost my g/f of 2 years and this is the worst yet. these things noramly dont phase me. i was a total laidies man for a year or 2 but this one was special. and now i have that same hollow feeling and feel like im ganna puke all day. i had to leave work early today cause i couldnt focus.

sorry i kinda had to vent too. but i couldnt imagine how you must feel. my dad has done the same kinda tihngs for all the women in his life and ive stood by and watched the same kinda things happen to him. he never was married and he says hes never gannaget married. hes 53.

[realdeal7369]

Seriously just work and spend time with friends it'll really help. Best of luck to ya, and if this happened to me I'd say fuck it and start fuckin everything that walks...;)

i feel bad for your house pets then...:jester:

[Jackedak03]

They're called man's best friend for a reason.

[Mikes99Dakota]

They're called man's best friend for a reason.

BWHAHAHAHAHAHA

[Mystake]

They're called man's best friend for a reason.


BAHAHAHA that's fucking DIRTY.

Deeznuts put it the best way, I think. I wouldn't waste my time though trying to get her back. Instead, show her what she's going to be missing out and what another lady is going to gain.

[UsRanger11B1V]

Any Kids involved?? That's a whole other ball of wax.